A fish is dangerous waters.

That's me when it comes to my surroundings. At times it feels like I am this nice gold fish swimming with piranhas.


What am I talking about? My in-laws. For 8 years now I have tried to make them accept me, or even more to like me. I have taken their kids for overnights, taken them to the park and other places, at times spent more time with them than anyone else. I have encouraged my husband to go and help my mother-in law with work around her house, even when that meant neglecting his own home. I have helped clean up after all family events at times found my self doing the cleaning on my own, while everyone else slipped out for what must have been the longest cigarette in the world. I dont remember ever hearing a thank you.

Not only that but when people drink truth comes out on what's being said, behind your back. I found out that I am classed the same as my sister-in law who never helps with anything. To them, I am no different.

So guess what? From now on I shall be no different, if you think you get no help from ungrateful daughter in laws you will finally find out what "no help" really feels like. Maybe for the first time in 8 years doing it on your own you will see what "on your own" really means. Good luck with that.

This little gold fish is done being walked all over and not appreciated. She knows that nothing she does will change your opinion because all you want to do is bitch and whine. So instead of going above and beyond and still be classed as someone who doesnt help, I will actually not help.